How To Invite a Friend To Church

Many want to invite their friends to our upcoming series, “Sexpectations” but are not sure how. Here are a few tips.

* Send them our Sexpectations evite with an email note. This will put it on their radar that we have a series you think they might find helpful.
* Call them and invite them. Following Jesus is incarnational. Jesus put flesh on God and became very personal. He wants us to do the same. Face to face is best, but in today’s digital world a phone call is now considered high touch.
* Tell your friend something like this. “Hey Matt, this is Ron. Got a minute? Great. I sent you an evite earlier today. Our church is doing a series that I think will be really good. It’s called, “Sexpectations.” It’s about how to find what we most want in marriage and relationships. I’d love to have you join me. Are you interested?”
* Listen. Once you share what is going on stop talking and just listen. Christians almost always talk too much. Answer their questions and see if they decide to come.
* Don’t get discouraged. Most people are busy and a bit scared by church. I find most people come to RCC about the 4th of 5th time I invite them.
* Pray. It is ultimately God who draws people to himself. He uses us for sure, but he does the heavy lifting. The pressure is off.
* Meet them at RCC so they feel comfortable. Go to the service that best fits their schedule.
* Debrief. Ask them after the service what it was like for them. Don’t be defensive if they did not like something.
* Have fun. Partnering with God in helping people go deeper with him is a blast. Enjoy the experience.

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Beauty Not Morality

We are finishing up our Margins series Sunday. We will be talking about moral margins. Usually when pastors speak on this subject they “move the lines.” If our culture says it’s okay to watch porn, pastors say, “You probably should not even dance with the opposite sex” or something crazy like that.

Colossians two says that rules do little to restrain sensual indulgence. So what helps? What will help us not cross certain sexual lines that could lead to addiction, broken families, lonely kids and the inability to fully enjoy pure sex the way God made it to be enjoyed?

In a word – holiness. Psalm 96:6 says, “Worship him in the beauty of his holiness.” Holiness is beauty. It means to be like God the beautiful one. When you realize the beauty he wants to give you. When you realize how breathtaking he wants your life to be. You don’t need moral limits because you are too focused on something better – living a beautiful life and inviting others to the same.

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Smokin 6 PM Service

Last night was our second evening service and my first. I was out of town last week due to my father having brain surgery. I was really looking forward to to being there last night and I was not disappointed.

* The worship was all world! I have to give a shout out to Paul our worship leader. His band was tighter than the bark on a hickory tree. Last night was the best worship set we have ever had a Restoration. I loved it.
* About half the people there were first timers. The word is getting out that Restoration is a great place to be wherever you are on the spiritual continuum.
* The series we are doing on margin is right where we all live. We are all needing margin to be able to invest our lives in those things that matter the most and bring us the most joy. Jesus really does have a better life for us all.
* The ambiance of our building, at night, is amazing. It is so warm and inviting.

We are off to a great start with our evening service. Spread the word about our Denver church!

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It’s About Time

We are talking about building margin into our schedule this Sunday at Restoration Community Church in Denver. It dawned on me this week how paradoxical God’s time management principles are. He deeply wants us to have more time for the things that matter the most. His ways of creating margin are counter-intuitive to progress driven westerners.

Here are a of God’s time management principles.

1. We gain control of time by surrendering it to God.
2. Margin and doing nothing helps increase productivity.
3. We prepare for eternity by accepting current limits.
4. We become free from temporal pressures by pondering eternal treasures.
5. Living for God’s mission increases overall capacity.
6. Relationship with God and people usually happens in the margins of life.
7. We get what we most want and need by seeking God first.

I am excited to unpack some of God’s counsel on this topic this Sunday. If you are a around I hope to see yo there.

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Keith Peeler

Keith died a couple weeks ago. Few people noticed when he died. The workers in the hospital, I’m sure, stopped for a moment, but then their busy night in the ER of one of the busiest hospitals in the Front Range quickly took over their thoughts and actions. The rest of us were all making our New Years Eve plans – and participating in such plans. Sadly, most people didn’t know Keith had died for several days.

Keith came into our lives a couple years ago when our church did an outreach of making 500 burritos and handing them out to homeless people in various spots around downtown. One couple, Lauren & Chris; quickly started up a relationship with Keith and his friend John. They worked with the coalition for the homeless to get Keith and John their social security numbers, identification, and even housing. The coalition helped with counseling and all kinds of services to help Keith and John get off the street and live an engaged life in the community.

Over the course of the last couple of years much has happened between Keith and John and Lauren and Chris and the coalition. The most noticeable has been everyone’s growth. Bouts of depression, slipping back into addictions, injuries from falls, and hospitalizations have all been the impetuous for people to engage with people in this journey of life. Chris doesn’t see homeless people in the same light he did 5 years ago and Lauren has learned how to love unconditionally and still maintain healthy boundaries. Everyone would say they are eternally different because of their journey with Keith. Lauren and Chris risked entering the life of a couple homeless men –and they don’t regret a minute of it.

Today we had Keith’s funeral at the church. Lauren & Chris, John, other friends, and workers from the coalition were all there. The workers at the coalition don’t often get to stop and mourn the loss of one of the homeless. Unfortunately, more times than not, a homeless person will die and very few people outside of the ER doctor and coroner ever stop to take notice. Each person has their own story; each is someone’s son/daughter, a friend, a sibling, an ex spouse. But most depart this physical world unnoticed.

Today we stopped to take notice for Keith and for all the others that come and go without being seen. People cried, laughed, and remembered what Keith has meant to them through the years. We told stories of about Keith, I spoke about the river of life that Christ offers us where we will no longer thirst, we ate lunch, and then we all went down to the river to release Keith’s physical body back to the earth. Water has meant a lot to Keith through out the years. Fishing, living near the Platte when he was homeless – good times and bad, the river has been a constant in his life. Now Keith is swimming all around in that eternal river of life. The rest of us walk away pondering the mystery of life and death and the engagement in our spiritual journey as we continue to walk physically here on earth.

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Denver Sunday Evening Church Service

We are excited to start our Sunday evening church services this Sunday at 6:00. We have a great core group of people who will be attending, and we hope it will help those who like to rest, ski, snowboard, mountain bike or enjoy any other activities on Sunday mornings have a chance to join us at Restoration Community Church.

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The sacred and the ordinary

I’ve been thinking a lot about underwear lately. I know that seems like an odd topic during one of the most sacred seasons of the year for Christians. Underwear seems so…common…kind of shameful…dirty. You see I always stuff my children’s stockings with underwear. The boys always laugh and put theirs on their head. The girls check out if I got the right kind and what size they are. And it’s gotten much more difficult to find the right type since everyone is growing up and has opinions about such things. This practice started years ago when they were babies and I didn’t want to put too much candy in their stockings, so I stuffed them full with underwear and socks. Now it’s more of a tradition than anything else.

Restoration Community Church has “adopted” a family so we can provide Christmas gifts for them. The family consists of a single mother and her two sons, 9 and 14. They have been living on the streets for the last year and a half. They just moved into an unfurnished apartment. We have asked the mother numerous times what she would want for Christmas gifts. Her consistent answer…. underwear. She’s not asking for a mattress, furniture, silverware, blankets…simply underwear. I’m going to get her underwear as well as a few other necessities. As she receives the gifts on Christmas day, I hope she senses God providing for her in the most ordinary and sacred ways.

As we’re all scurrying around this season going to parties, buying gifts, and preparing food; I can’t help but think of the 10,000 plus people living on the streets of Denver who primarily just want a clean pair of underwear for Christmas. And I think about Jesus who came into this world in physical form through the birth canal of a young unwed teenager in a dirty stable. It seems so dirty…kind of shameful….common. The sacred and the ordinary all wrapped in strips of cloth. My prayer for myself this season is that I don’t loose sight of the mystery and majesty of God entering our world one night 2000 years ago.

Nanci Ricks

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Face of God

Jesus came to reveal the face of God to us. He is, “A light for revelation to the Gentiles, and the glory of your people Israel” (Luke 2:32).

He came to show us that God is loving and truthful. God is honest with us about our condition. A part from him we have no hope of heaven. Like the prodigal son, Jesus has given us an invitation to join God’s joy at the eternal party.

Jesus showed us that God is strong and humble. We cannot ascend to God like Gnostics ancient and modern believe today. God has descended to us. God descended into a zygote in Mary’s womb so that we could know him. That takes strength and unimaginable humility.

God is responsible and he rests. Jesus cared for his own soul even while working relentlessly to see people saved and healed. He calls us to take responsibility for our spiritual growth, while resting in the truth that he has a plan for our lives and our world and it will not be thwarted.

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Deadline or Lifeline?

More powerful than a steaming locomotive, crazier than a Halloween candy hangover, able to leap over the pile of last year’s toys with stunning ease is the ‘Christmas Craze.’ That last 2-week period before December 25 when kids start really getting antsy and the official countdown, which actually began 351 days ago, becomes a tangible thing in your house. Each day brings progressive excitement for them. And each day the crazy is proportionate to well … one day closer to Christmas.

Helping kids to relax and enjoy the building experience is usually not an issue. They’re enjoying it. Are you? As parents, we have so much to think about and accomplish these last two weeks before Christmas. Are your deadlines defeating your joy? We want our kids to know the true gift of Christmas, Jesus’ birth, but are we so caught up in the gifts, cards, baking and parties that we’re missing it ourselves? Will you remember this Christmas as the year you stayed up all night putting together that playhouse, or the year your family experienced something life changing?

Make a pact with yourself to take time to see this Season through their eyes, and give their eyes something to feast on that can’t be found under a tree. If you don’t belong to a church, find one. If you do, ask how you can get the whole family involved volunteering for a Christmas Eve Service. Seeing the miracle of Jesus birth through more than a 60 minute, “we got our inspiration and met our obligation for the year” Christmas Eve service will turn into a meaningful, can’t wait to do it again next year (or maybe next Sunday) experience that will truly make the Season pop with meaning and joy. More significantly, it will make the next 365 days even brighter. Do you dare deserve such a lifeline of a gift? Go ahead. It’s yours for the taking.

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Less Than One Dollar a Day

“Little girl why are you not at school today?” asked Shaji. “My father lost his job and my parents cannot afford the books and uniforms so I am taking this semester off” said the young girl without looking him in the eye. Shaji J. Amos, the Founder of Kolkata City Mission hears this story all too often. No books and uniform means she can’t attend school. Without school there is a good chance she will fall victim to the traps of the Slum. For young girls the danger is even more heightened. The downward spiral begins with hanging out with the wrong crowd and will very likely end in prostitution, slavery, or falling victim to a child predator by age 13.

According to the United Nations, approximately 35 percent of India’s 260 million people (a group almost equal to the entire population of the United States) still earns $1 or less a day. The cost of a uniform and books are just a few dollars a month in India, but to most residents in the slum it is out of reach and a ‘luxury’ they cannot afford. Education and mentoring are the key to breaking the cycle of the slum. In fact getting one child an education can have significant impact on an entire family’s health and well-being.
Restoration has the goal of sponsoring 100 kids in the Slums of Kolkata this month. A $25 dollar a month donation can help break the cycle. It means the child gets into a mentoring program, gets the support they need to attend school, and makes sure they are involved in activities after school. There are hundreds of kids waiting to be sponsored.
Visit www.kolkatacitymission.org to learn more and start a sponsorship today.

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