Many want to invite their friends to our upcoming series, “Sexpectations” but are not sure how. Here are a few tips.
* Send them our Sexpectations evite with an email note. This will put it on their radar that we have a series you think they might find helpful.
* Call them and invite them. Following Jesus is incarnational. Jesus put flesh on God and became very personal. He wants us to do the same. Face to face is best, but in today’s digital world a phone call is now considered high touch.
* Tell your friend something like this. “Hey Matt, this is Ron. Got a minute? Great. I sent you an evite earlier today. Our church is doing a series that I think will be really good. It’s called, “Sexpectations.” It’s about how to find what we most want in marriage and relationships. I’d love to have you join me. Are you interested?”
* Listen. Once you share what is going on stop talking and just listen. Christians almost always talk too much. Answer their questions and see if they decide to come.
* Don’t get discouraged. Most people are busy and a bit scared by church. I find most people come to RCC about the 4th of 5th time I invite them.
* Pray. It is ultimately God who draws people to himself. He uses us for sure, but he does the heavy lifting. The pressure is off.
* Meet them at RCC so they feel comfortable. Go to the service that best fits their schedule.
* Debrief. Ask them after the service what it was like for them. Don’t be defensive if they did not like something.
* Have fun. Partnering with God in helping people go deeper with him is a blast. Enjoy the experience.
